Can Plastic Surgery Save
a Marriage
 What do you understand when you say ‘marriage’?
Often you see two committed to each other individuals who
cherish each other. Unfortunately, though most marriages
start in this manner, very few maintain this level of
emotional commitment. The love, the mutual respect, the
physical attraction wanes off after a few years. The
interdependency that initially felt so good, in this
scenario becomes troublesome and irritating. Why is
it that two people who love each other one day, fall out
of love after a while? There are many reasons for this;
but some of the most obvious are:
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Mismatch of thought and behavior - When there is a
mismatch of thought you cannot converge on a common
future plan, which in turn would push each of the
spouse search fro like-minded people who understand
them. The longer they seek this understanding
outside the marriage, the more they would grow away
from each other and the marriage would eventually
end in divorce.
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Falling in love with another person - this is a
possibility which is rare but very real. Very often
the heart does things that cannot be explained
logically and falling out of love and in love again
is possible. In this situation, the whole thing
would depend whether the ‘erring’ person would want
to pursue the new founded love or work at his/ her
marriage.
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Evolving into a physically unattractive person – by
putting on weight, not grooming oneself to look
presentable, not maintaining personal hygiene,
developing gross habits, etc. What happens when you
are no longer attractive to your partner?
Obviously, your partner would stop being interested
in you for sex as this option would all of a sudden
be rather unpleasant. Once sex goes out of the
marriage, the countdown for a possible divorce
starts looming at the horizon. So what could be the
remedy?
Plastic Surgery Pros
Plastic surgery comes with a handful of
advantages:
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Safe and Fast - The advantage with the plastic
surgery is that it is a safe and (thankfully) fast
way to pull yourself back into shape.
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Shows your commitment – when you take the trouble
to undergo plastic surgery – facial, or on the body
such liposuction – you show your commitment to the
marriage. You say, “I care and this is why I am
making an effort to look good for you.”
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Enhances physical attraction – good looks almost
always attract the opposite’s attention like a
magnet. Once the physical attraction is
established, a lot many things in your marriage
would gain new perspective. It would become all of
a sudden very easy to “repair” the marriage.
Plastic Surgery Cons
There is another side to the coin, i.e. the
negative side:
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Implies shallowness in marriage – though physical
attraction is important, the fact that you need to
look good to be loved might not always mean a
healthy marriage. A healthy marriage would mean
love is there – unconditionally.
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Demands equal effort from the other spouse – going
through plastic surgery is a great effort involving
money, pain and a good deal of time. When one of
the spouses takes so much trouble to put the
marriage back on track, he/ she would demand the
same level of commitment/ effort from their
counterpart. If this is not forthcoming, then the
marriage would suffer.
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Quick fix addiction – one might get too used to
such quick-fix methods of restoring the thrill in
the marriage – and fail. This happens when you
would think that everything depended upon your
looks, which cannot be the foundation of any good
marriage.
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